My BF keeps pictures of pretty girls

S said...

that her bf keeps thousands of pictures of pretty girls (not naked) in his computer. She wonders if this is normal and that it makes her feel insecure and wonders if she is not able to satisfy him.

Bart says

A guy who keeps porn is someone who uses it for sexual gratification.

A guy who keeps non-naked girl pictures either has a very good imagination or he likes pretty girls and atm is not fully committed to you. What I mean is if a pretty girl like those in his collection comes along and shows interest in him it is likely he will entertain that interest.

Nothing that you can do about it really cos guys can get very protective and stubborn over their "collections". Thus my se kiu for you is to start your own collection of good looking male and let him accidentally find it. Say "oh I saw ur collection and that sparked my interest in collecting guy pics as well. Wah u see this leng chai fuiyooooo...". If he ask you not to keep anymore say "mm but u can keep I cannot keep? so unfair wan...".

This will force him to think about the other side of the coin.

B asks,

Can you recommend candlelight dinner in Penang? Wanna celebrate birthday wif my bf.

B@rt says,

I have a friend who did this. Try it out!

He went and bought a box of candles and set them up on the beach in the shape of a heart. After romantic dinner he drove her to the beach, closed her eyes and bawa her jalan at the beach and TADAA... open her eyes and in front of her was the candle lit heart in the sand. and then he popped out a birthday cake and they sat in the middle of the heart under the starry sky feeding each other the cake while listening to the sound of crashing waves.

Pls note in order for this to work u need an accomplice to light the candles at the beach and also to light the candles on the birthday cake. But the fella must be seng mok and be invisible lah.

How to get together with a guy?

LB says,

hi everyone!

i got feeling at a guy around 1 year ard,
although it is not a long time but the feeling is so....... dunno how ti discribe:cry:

i think he dunno
and i don' think i will going to let him know...izit i'm so stupid?
should i give up?(mayb most of u all say "dont!"
lets give some opinion o wht else u want to say....
thanks....

B@rt says,
Hey LB,

You didn't give much info on how old u are or what you do and so on so this is going to be a bit general.

Firstly you need to find out whether he knows you exist. If he doesn't know who you are that's fine. If you know each other then it would be easier.

In the event that he doesn't know you exist you have to look him up on facebook and find out what his hobbies /interest lies. If he doesn't have facebook or his facebook doesn't provide any of the information required you need to ask your friend to ask his friend what are his hobbies. Try to be as subtle as possible without letting out that there is a girl interested in him. Then you need to research on his hobby, eg computer gaming or dancing, and join him in his hobby. Make friends with him this way and hang out/makan/yum cha with him after playing computer games at the CC for example. Try to keep the conversations casual and about the hobby. Give him I REPEAT give him your MSN/number. If he calls/contacts you, half the battle is won. Also try to get as many one on one sessions with him as possible. You can do this by asking him to pick u up in his car to go for activities, having lunch/dinner with him etc. Say something along the lines of "wah after that session I'm very hungry lah. Can stop for some food?"

During outings with him dress sweetly, try butt hugging jeans, spaghetti straps, tie your hair if your hair is long (I like it that way i dunno why) etc. When u're one on one with him like when he drives you home flirt with him a bit like say "wah ur hair very smooth leh" and run your fingers through his hair or act like you're annoyed in a manja way when he teases you and slap his shoulders and say "So funny meh *smack*" or playfully put an arm around his shoulders when taking pictures that sort of stuff.

Most important is to make it seem natural and make him fall for you and make him court you instead of the other way around.

Good luck